How Rational Are We, Really?
He asked for feedback, and this is what I wrote:
It has often been a question in my mind how people can get swept up in mass irrationality, why they so often act against their own interest, and how to shift that.
I don’t pretend to have the answer, but one piece of the puzzle is to meet people where they are, agree on the areas where you have commonality, and then nudge the conversation forward a step at a time–while external forces are pushing much harder and faster. Excruciatingly slow, but it does seem to work. We saw this when GWB, in an attempt to block the momentum of the gay marriage movement, actually ENDORSED civil unions. He would have never done this without the pressure of the marriage movement making a formerly-seen-as-extreme step seem measured and rational. But I think he also had to be met on the ground of “family values” to be able to recognize that families are not just a husband, wife, and kids.
And what do you think about it?
Personally, I find it fascinating to discover how the mind works, and how what looks like “irrational” behavior is potentially driven by rational “survival” tactics we’re wired for. The more we understand what drives the “irrational” behavior we can tweak our environment to better serve our well-being.
Absolutely. I totally agree.